Anon lives differently than his peers

I don't feel the need to post my life online... Continues to post personal story online

The difference is ~~it's fake~~ the anonymity.

Doesn't live online --->>> posts on 4chan

never felt like I needed to post my life for the whole world to see
As he posts a story from his life 🙄
Dude is so oblivious and arrogant. He barely knows her and is already judging, thankfully smart girl saw the signs and dodged a bullet. It's rare for greentext to have a happy ending.
- damn bro, no need to get up in arms about it. Everybody judges everybody all the time, just a reality of life. She's judging him, he's judging her, I'm judging you right now, you're going to be judging me when you read this, and on it goes.

You don't need to also fake post what others post. Just have an account, you don't need to ever post on it and if you do post you can keep it visible to friends only. I haven't posted anything on Facebook for years, but that account is the only way some friends and relatives can reach me (I moved abroad, so phone is not an option).
emotionally well adjusted
No shot anyone who posts "I'm practicing gratitude today" is well adjusted lul
This, for real. I'm autistic but I've learned to mask it by showing normies what they expect to see and it makes things so much easier. Remember, reception matters more than intention.

you have xmpp? -no...

Matrix, Briar, SimpleX? -no

gotta have Email at least? ... ... no 🧐

I only know two women who use non-standard social apps, and both of them work in NGOs with good reason to not trust corps/government.

NGL if you have a flip phone now, you're either a contract killer, a drug dealer and or a stage 5 weirdo.

If you don’t have lemmy nobody will fuck you.

Her: "What's Lemmy?"
Me: "It's like if 500 nerds emulated the Reddit experience of 2011."
Her: (visibly drying)
- Her: (visibly drying)
  Ben Shapiro intensifies.

Anon's "flip phone"

Shes gonna think you're handing her a burner phone dude lmao

Anon actually is in complete denial about his autism.
If someone pulls out a flip phone I'm just going to assume they're a drug dealer

Folks wanna know what they're getting into. Your social media feeds are an easy indicator. Your twitter all retweets of Andrew Tate? Facebook filled with pics of you dressed up like a leather dog? Truth social? Concerning for many women.

I know this is likely fake, but I have gotten that reaction from people. Folks really find it strange when you don't have social media. The times it really sucks is when they think you're lying and just don't want to add them.

It's about safety for me. Going on a date with someone is such a gamble. If they have zero social media presence, that's outside of what's normal. Anything outside of normal social expectations is a safety red flag to me, because you immediately become less predictable to me. I don't want to be alone with someone I don't really know who is unpredictable. I'm just trying not to get murdered.
Yep and somehow, they want you to "prove" you don't have one.
But you are lying. You are on lemmy.
- Imagine if the norm was to ask for your Lemmy/Reddit account.

Being on 4chan a wayyy bigger red flag than using a flip phone most of the time.

loner, but not autistic or ugly so I get invited out pretty often

Oof. This hurt to read

qt3.14 🤮

I'm not even sure what that means
- Qt3.14 = cutie-pie.

anon should’ve pulled out his Lemma and asked for her username (not that you can follow anyone here afaik) he would’ve smashed that instant

erm, a username alone is not very helpful, so unless he asked for her home instance as well, i-

Hey I want to look at 4chan stuff like this but not get flashed with porn, any tips?

Stick to communities like this that screencap the good bits so you don’t have to sort through the crap.

I am terminally online and even I don't want to engage with someone I know IRL through social media. We don't need to be on discord or Instagram or Reddit to talk 1 on 1. We can just fucking text. Like on the phone. No, I don't want to download Kik or whatsapp or any other random, sketchy app. We can text through the phone.

Fuck texting like a Neanderthal. Use a modern, and secure app to communicate. WhatsApp as a bottom of the barrel thing (99% of society outside of the US is on it, so it's the de facto standard) , signal or better if you can.
- Nothing makes me smirk like the rest of the world bragging to Americans that they use Facebook to text. Yeah guys, you nailed it. Big win. We’re over here using standard protocols like rubes. I’m sure you get all kinds of security from that free app from Mr Zuckerberg. lol