Americans are increasingly unlikely to believe that those who work hard will get ahead and that their children will be better off than they are, according to two recent polls.
I disagree, back in the 60s it was totally possible to find a decent paying job, have a couple of kids, buy a house to store them in, get a new car every few years, send your kids off to school, go on vacations and retire at an age old enough to enjoy some time with the grandkids. Now that really isn’t a reality for the average person.
Naw after WWII when half the men were dead, everyone had jobs, houses, and two women fawning over them. It was great, if only we had a way to kill off half the people so everyone could have twice as much.
To be fair, it was barely even attainable by those born stateside in the mid-50s. It might've taken the whole thing a couple decades to truly die, but the hopium was laced thick among the children that came after. To this day, few American teens seem to grasp how deep the lie reaches... They're so fucked.
The quote is accurate. But man am I tired of seeing it pop up in every thread related to American quality of living going down the shitter the past 30 years
I don't know the origin of the concept called "the American dream" but I've heard as well that it involved something like:
3 bedroom house
White picket fence
2.2 kids
1 dog
2 cars in the driveway
2 weeks of family vacation
One breadwinner and one homemaker
Available to anyone who can work at the factory 40 hours a week. Basically "The Wonder Years" TV series in a nutshell.
But the idea that if you work hard you'll get ahead is ultimately the core of it. Some measurable, definable "hard work output" equals some obtainable reward, and harder work means even more reward. And really smart plus really hard work means even more opportunities are unlocked.
A lot of countries can't offer this or don't have a system of advancing through social glass ceilings or "castes".
So in that way it at least seems like the US still offers this although more and more difficult to achieve, connections are more crucial, or figuring out some trick (a side gig) is needed.
I know way too many people with a college degree that can hardly afford the rent.
I've got that. 35, wife doesn't work, second kid on the way. The fence isn't white and there's actually 3 cars, I couldn't bring myself to get rid of the convertible in the garage.
No, that's pretty much the key note of the original definition.
You, like many, just thought the cliche "house with two kids" depicted to show a character was living the Dream was the Dream, but the concept was always about opportunity being available for those willing to put in effort.
Although, obviously, since it was coined in 1931 "everyone" had some notable exceptions.
It's hilarious that someone downvoted you. You pointed out the facts and fuck the facts when they contradict what I want to be true! It's the same shit I see from conservatives (and I guess some others) when they insisted that "the definition of recession was changed!" because the short-hand oversimplified rule of thumb definition is all they knew, and when the facts show that their oversimplified view was not reality. . .well "downvote" them.
I think genx was the last generation to have a shot at the traditional path to th American dream. House, car(s), career that didn’t have to involve hopping all over the place, and maybe a college degree that was worth something. Yeah, there were wars, massive downturns in economy, 9/11, offshoring of labor and manufacturing in multiple waves, killing pensions in bankruptcies, and you could still save the world with recycling… but yet many still managed to hang on. Unlike following generations who each had the rug pulled out from them in multiple ways.
None of my genx friends would agree with you. They are all professional wage slaves and still can't get a promotion because their 75 year old bosses refuse to retire.
Yes, I forgot to add that to the list. The boomers’ death grip on the high paying jobs. That is a factor.
Being GenX myself I’m pretty familiar with what we’ve been through, so I don’t need to argue about it. I was careful to use conditional language to indicate that not everyone got to follow the path I mentioned, just like today not all millennials or GenZ get hosed and some can follow the traditional path.
That shits been dead since the 60’s at least. It had been thoroughly dragged through the streets and mutilated by the 80’s. It’s been dead long enough that it’s not even a rotting corpse anymore, it’s just bones in a pile slowly turning to dust.
In 30 years no one who was alive before it died will still be around and it will be a forgotten concept that lives on in the imagination of children as an echo of times past while they brave the streets as they’ve had to drop out of school and work alongside their parents to make sure the family has enough money to buy dinner.
I want to not worry about my car breaking down and being unable to work or live because of it. I want to not worry about covering my mortgage and also having food in the fridge. I want to not worry about my 16 year old water heater failing on me and knowing that it’ll be, at minimum, months before I can replace it.
This is a qualitative metric that may or may not be a reflection of the economy, but it sure seems like bad news. At least it's bad news for those who aren't coming from existing wealth or connections.
If most people believe that hard work - without needing a prior wealthy social circle - will not result in a commensurate lifestyle, they won't be as willing to put in the time for education, be willing to grind their early career, or be willing to borrow money believing that tomorrow will surely be better. That can easily start a downward cycle where there are fewer and fewer opportunities.
Yeah, but on the flip side - this is the energy we can use to change things for the better
Debt only drives things under our insane system, there's so many other options. People accepting that "hey, things won't work out if we slave away for rich assholes" is the first step to coming up with a system that benefits everyone more (even the rich assholes... They're not happy either)
I'm not at all sure this was ever the case for most people, only ever a subset of the population, because it is a pyramid. Some achieving the upward path but that number gets smaller and smaller toward the top. More of an ad campaign than a description of the average situation for the average family.
Naaa, the American dream is alive, just look at all of our ruling oligarchs' yachts, vacation homes and private jets, not to mention all the judges and congressmen they own.
It was rhetorical. I suppose I should have been clearer, but I'm so tired of having to tell people their holy cows were never anything more than empty propaganda.
It has certainly never been the case that working hard will get you ahead, the inverse is actually more true. People who are forced to work hard to survive can believe this at their detriment.
This is probably the most accurate for people who are from less privileged backgrounds who are expected to demonstrate their merits before being accepted in to professional managerial professions. For people born in to that world it's more important to not run against the merits that have been assumed for you.