Expectations
Expectations
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But there’s a whole points system that scientifically explains why those women aren’t even good enough for you and should be happy to pair up with a man who goons to hentai instead of having a social life.
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They should be more appreciative of nice guys smh
/j
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To be honest, she would be there for them if the beta losers that are our rulers didn't think it was a good idea to give them rights in order to take advantage of having more voters because demoncrazy
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Fuck that. I want either a flat chested and skinny or "big tiddy" and thick gf, that watches way too much anime and plays way too much games, and she cannot be my mom in any way of form. However, she must be autistic.
Signed: just some (autistic) guy
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So, basically, yout requirements are 1. breathes 2. watches anime
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"Oh, you mean the big tiddy goth gf was inside me this whole time???"
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Be the girls you want to see in the world.
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We don't kink shame
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Yes, you can become one any time, so you can be someone else's big tiddy goth gf.
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I'd love to see this dude that actually thinks that anymore. Today's trend is to just give up on material life like a zen buddist, but be a nihilist.
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I would like to know what the dude should look like to pull a btgg. Just out of curiosity
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Can confirm this is me fr, gave up on finding love years ago
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Don't, just look at other countries. Latinas are best in my opinion, energy for the soul.
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Typically if you go looking for a partner with a checklist you'll be disappointed. Nobody wants to be graded like a piece of pork.
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My checklist:
[ ] Must like me
[ ] Don’t be bigotedMaybe I’m asking too much
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I might know someone to set you up with if you're flexible on the first requirement.
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Nobody wants to be graded like a piece of pork.
Pretty sure dick rating is at least a fetish.
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I blame the fact that every guy around their mid 20s has a big-thigh male friend with a small waist that watches anime and plays videogames but still has enough time to introduce a random niche hobby like archery every other week that can be both your cool uncle and a therapist.
How do they do that? Nobody knows.
Meanwhile every other friend and family member seemingly flips a coin to decide if they wanna fall into the racist pipeline every 2-4 years in US depending on how south you live.
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That is so oddly specific but also rings true
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I don’t think I have any friends or family flipping a coin to decide if they want to fall into the racist pipeline.
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But I'm the main character
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The girl is the main character and the guys are just quest mobs
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in my entire playthrough I've never seen the perspective switch to somebody else, which is very boring but also focuses all my attention on one character
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Meh, I don't like big tits.
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Yup that fixes everything about this.
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I like them, but I usually like smaller ones better.
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valid opinion, have a nice day
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Same. Also she can have as much anime and games as she wants
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Like people expecting a working democracy and thinking that it is enough to vote.
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Yes everyone knows that in order to have a functional society you need to wear a yellow fluorescent jacket and set fire to a few cars every time you're moderately unhappy about something.
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That is actually the case, yes.
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This is pretty reducing of the yellow jacket movement but I don't expect mainstream media to have covered that properly.
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Heey Vive la France!
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wear a yellow fluorescent jacket and set fire to a few cars
That's like spraying Axe/Lynx deodorant all over the body and believing that it will work as advertised.
That's still being just some guy.
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my dumb ass, who hasn't touched a dumbbell in years except for moving:
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In my experience. Goth or Alt girls won’t like you cuz you’re muscly.
Source, a skinny person who’se got some history in those circles.
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I remember a post where a guy was like “why does she get all dressed up to go out with her friends but with she just wears sweatpants?” and the “with me” clip had bro in basketball shorts, a t-shirt, and a baseball hat. One of the comments said something along the lines “she’s putting as much effort in as you are.”
Too many of us dudes have such garbo fashion sense they seem to believe that wearing a t-shirt without holes and their “nice shorts” is enough to start complaining about women and it’s just sad.
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Also, are we talking about being at home, or going out on a date with the guy? If she's chilling at home of course she's gonna be in fucking sweatpants. Do you expect her to look like a TikTok influencer 24/7? Hell, even if it was an outing, if you're going to a regular, mom-and-pop diner or some shit, I also wouldn't expect someone to dress mega fancy, especially if you're already with them.
But yeah, don't wear a plain ass T-shirt and shorts to a nice date and expect your partner to always be ready to model for a fashion brand...
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Well in fairness men's fashion is essentially t-shirt or suit & tie. There really isn't the equivalent of what women get, that's why all the fashion designers make dresses, because men don't get any effort put into their fashion.
What is the male equivalent of dress shopping?
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Well in fairness men's fashion is essentially t-shirt or suit & tie.
T-shirt is fairly versatile but men's fashion is not that limited.
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I mean, that's really not true. Just look at the various male fashion advice communities, streetwear culture, etc. There's a huge variety in different styles of shirts, outerwear, layering, footwear, accessories, and pants. Hell, even t-shirts and denim have a huge variety in style and quality.
There's massive cultural pressure for women to be fashionable and wear the "right" clothes, a pressure men by and large don't have to deal with. Companies are one of the primary drivers of this pressure by manipulative marketing practices that that convince many women that they need the latest trends and fashions to be keep up.
All of it is bullshit meant to keep people spending money, ultimately. Fashion should be a form of personal expression and personality and by no means requires purchasing new clothing all of the time.
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I totally agree that women get a lot more variety but there’s still all kinds of stuff we can do in between. Button up shirts with nice patterns are a huge way to bridge the gap, and you can tuck them in or not and even just leave them open with a t-shirt underneath. Wearing good glasses is important, and frankly we should just pretend those plain black rectangle ones don’t exist because they’re always the worst option. Head to a place like Zenni and it doesn’t have to be expensive(those expensive glasses are a racket).
I got a pair of black stud earrings a while ago and people were like “goddamn”. I know that’s a little more difficult, but it was a small and not too flashy change that made a big difference. A good haircut is also easy to get since you’re already going to the barber anyway, and I discovered beard brushes a while back which straighten out even very short beards and keep everything looking sharp.
There’s a LOT we can do even though we’re kinda limited in many other ways.
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Diverse well fitting shirts and non-cargo pants from other materials than denim. More adventurous men can dive into different kinds of tunics sweaters and such, can have accessories like neckerchieves and scarves, nice bags, footwear. You can play with colors and patterns... Men can have some fun with clothes too.
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I know a guy who encountered this problem and answered it by wearing suits every day.
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gonna be honest. i have eclectic (okay weird) but pretty sharp fashion sense. going out with my wife is always an excuse to dress up. i don't understand this "wearing a t-shirt without holes and their “nice shorts” is enough to start complaining about women" but i'm fucking vain
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Dressing up as a guy is kinda hard, the widely accepted options tend to have much less variety than women's fashion. You pretty much have to get weird to make it a little fun, and that's risky.
I guess that actually makes it easy to dress up, it's just depressingly boring.
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There are a lot of dudes who basically just think that if they meet a bare minimum then they’re owed something. You can see it a lot just walking around and will probably notice it more as the percentage of chain restaurants and parking lots in the area goes up.
You and I might put more effort in but how we are doesn’t change how they are.
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Now I'm deeply curious about your fashion sense. What's the weirdest item that you love and regularly wear?
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What is hilarious is when people come into an interview like a scrub. I understand you spent four hundred dollars on those basketball sneakers. But they're basketball sneakers. You didn't get the job because you obviously make bad decisions.
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If the job isn't representative or dealing with customers, fuck off with fashion sense or pay for the uniform.
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And to that end, dressing up nice enough for interview at most places shouldn’t even be that high a bar. Dark jeans and a nice button up, even one with patterns honestly, will probably be enough. After that, though, most jobs pay like shit and treat people worse than that so if they expect me to show up in a suit and jerk them off they can get bent.
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I actually really like when my so dresses like shit. I don't know why I find it so hot. Then we dress up for a dress code restaurant, come home and wear clothes with holes from parrots chewing the shoulders.
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I'd love to dress better, but at my height and gender expectations, best I can do is a good pair of jeans and a nice t-shirt. Would love to do better 😥
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Imagine getting life stories form social media...
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If they were just some guy it would be ok. In my female experience guys like this are overweigh, jobless, don't make a single effort at anything and are convinced women own him to be perfect
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Seen a lot of men like this with the "ideals" except they have a good job and think it's a crowning achievement. They also often want their wives to have good jobs and to have separate accounts and expenses? So they want a perfect, pretty, petite wife who's smart, has a great job, but also cooks, cleans, takes care of the house, and their children. What do they bring to the table? Not the looks, money or house help. Their ✨shining personality ✨? Don't worry ladies this alpha nice guy's on the market & just around the corner, lucky you!
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My only requirements are that she's as depraved and unabashedly slutty as I am and I'm attracted to her.
Well I guess also that she doesn't sponge off me.
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I think the Venn diagram of guys who want a big tiddy girlfriend with a tiny waist who plays video games and is caring towards them overlaps not only with overweight and jobless but also fit and employed and everything in between. What you're referring to "don't make a single effort at anything and are convinced women [owe] him to be perfect" is borderline abusive. You are insulting other overweight and jobless folk with your generalization.
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this, but somehow a buch of them manage to rope someone way higher tier into dating them. I worked a few years at a place that employed a lot of women escaping abusive relationships. the boss was basically everyone's mom. All top tier beauties but somehow got only the skeeziest and lazy men.
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I'm not saying it's all of them, but if you talk to some of these women they have this weird idea about masculinity, it's all dressed up but when you strip it all back it's all toxic.
Stuff about how it's unmanly to have a pet cat, and how they should drive a big expensive car, and should pay for everything. I have no idea where they get this stuff from but if that's how they think, then they are only going to get a scumbag man because they're the only met that actually conform to that view of masculinity.
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Be the change you want to see.
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:3
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Well in return I can be a big tiddy bf who watches anime and plays video games but not too much and can be her mom and her therapist
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And no one even mentions Bo Burnhams song about exactly this?
Well here is a link then.
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Look, if I can't be a big tiddy goth babe who plays video games, then that's the next best thing
Luckily my wife is a little goth, plays a couple video games, she's a babe, and I love every part of her. And for some reason she likes me, so I guess I got the best thing anyway.
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Is she single?
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we can all be big tiddy goth babes who play video games in our hearts
i'm a bit gothabilly and my wife is pastel goth when we wear black. without gushing for too long, I'll just say we're good for each other.
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I just want someone who is that middle thing (watches anime and plays games). Everything else is optional.
Goth/Preppy
Boy/Girl
Living/Deceased
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Existing/Nonexisting? Boom, problem solved
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No it's existing people that are the problem. They have some bias against me.
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Where would you ever find someone who both watches anime AND plays video games?
Talk about a unicorn.
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The hard part is to find someone that only watches anime but doesn't proceed to make it part of their personal identity.
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People be like "society has imposed unrealistic expectations on everyone about every aspect of their lives causing irreparable damage to the self and the society that created the issue" and they're just some hairless ape.
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Girls be like “where’s my 6 ft+ millionaire bf who also likes to stay home, cuddle, read feminist literature, and does the dishes and laundry without being asked”, meanwhile they’re a single mom with 30 extra pounds and crippling student loan debt.
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If you really wanted to express that this goes both ways:
In the post, it's "meanwhile, they're just some guy". Why not say "they're just some girl" instead on bashing on single mothers?
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Problem is having unrealistic expectations regardless of who you are. You can have preferences but don’t objectify.
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You see this a lot in the comment sections of short videos complaining about men. The expectations are wild. Of course they're unrepresentative, but these women clearly are out there.
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All I'm saying is that having unrealistic expectations is not a single-sex problem.
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Girlfriend requirements: being female (optional) , liking each other.
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I feel personally attacked.
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I know exactly where she is, in their imagination
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Yeah there's like 3 of these women in existence, and they are all in happy relationships. Give me a flawed but functional tomboy type that I can joke around with while hiking with the dog and drinking beer out of a backpack cooler.
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Hmmm.
Maybe I have lower standards than I thought. That's encouraging!
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Meanwhile, most dudes would settle for someone who doest post bullshit memes that are only ever about rage baiting. This is more gals as well. We all just wanna meet good people, romantic and other wise, while having a crippling fear that we arent good enough for to deserve it. And shit like this, just fuels it. But as long as the upvotes and karma... opps, did I say the quiet part out loud?
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Which is totally nothing like women wanting a man that's 6ft+ tall and makes at least high 6 figures a year minimum and already owns an expensive car and a very nice house.....
It's odd don't you think, that in the end most of us can find someone that makes us happy with no care about specific physical traits or money. It appears that only the truly damage humans can't wake up from that pipe dream.